Dear Gays: You Already Had Equal Marriage Rights

Dear Gays: You Already Had Equal Marriage Rights

I realise I’m biased, but I believe America is one of the greatest nations on the face of the planet. (HAPPY INDEPENDENCE DAY!!!!!) In fact, I believe we’re second only to Israel. I would rather be anything--young, black, female, Christian, imaginative, etc.--in America than anywhere else. One of the things that makes our nation so great, even with its many flaws and spiritual shortcomings, is the fact that everyone has equal rights. Black and white, male and female, young and old, Christian and Muslim, and yes, straight and gay. We are ALL given access to the same rights. One of those rights is marriage for all.

Every American has the right to get married. In fact, since the ungodly laws against interracial marriage (as if there even were such a thing as more than one human race) were struck down, EVERY.SINGLE.AMERICAN. has had the right to marry whomever they like.

Some of you are sitting there reading this like, “What is wrong with this crazy little black girl??”

Let me help you out.


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What is Marriage?

“But from the beginning of the creation, God ‘made them male and female.’ ‘For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh’; so then they are no longer two, but one flesh.” (Mark 10:6-8)
So God created man in His own image; in the image of God He created him; male and female He created them. Then God blessed them, and God said to them, “Be fruitful and multiply; fill the earth and subdue it… (Genesis 1:27-28)

Marriage is the joining together of one man and one woman to create one flesh and, hopefully, produce children. This is the age-old, Biblical definition of marriage. It was ordained by God and is backed by biology. It is the bedrock of the family which is itself the cornerstone of society and the foundation of a civilization.

Every American has this right.

Some of you are still sitting there looking at me like I’m crazy. Allow me to continue.

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Marriage, Like Anything Else, Has Prerequisites

Everyone in America has the right to get married. Anyone so long as they meet these prerequisites:

  • They’re of age.

  • They have parental consent if they’re underage.

  • They pass their medical exam if their state requires it.

  • They’re marrying another (1) human being.

  • They’re marrying another (1)  human being of the opposite gender.

Like many other rights and privileges, every law-abiding American has access to them, providing they meet the prerequisites. If you want a library card, provide proof of residence. If you want a place to live, provide proof of income. If you want a job, provide proof of experience and intelligence. If you want a social media account, provide an email address. If you don’t do those things, guess what? You won’t get what you’re applying for.

It’s not hard. EVERY AMERICAN HAS THE RIGHT TO MARRY. Before all Americans had this right, it was the result of an unjust racial system that discriminated against other people simply because of the amount of melanin in their skin; because of the way God created them. When the laws against interracial marriage were abolished, justice and liberty reigned.


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The Deception of "Discrimination"

A gay American saying they didn’t have the right to get married before last week is A LIE FROM THE PIT OF HELL!!!

Hear me!!


What took place when the Supreme Court CHANGED THE LAW was, not granting a right that was not previously given, but PERVERTING a right that already existed.

A gay person saying they didn’t have the right to get married is like a toddler saying they didn’t have the right to get married. The right is extended to them, but only when they are old enough and or have parental consent. But no parent in their right mind would grant a child the ability to marry seeing as they do not possess the cognitive and procreational abilities, nor the emotional maturity to handle a marriage.

A gay person saying they didn’t have the right to get married is like a prisoner saying they don’t have the rights of a normal citizen. They had the same rights as everyone else. But THROUGH THEIR OWN ACTIONS, they violated the law of the land and thus, forfeited the rights of a normal, law-abiding citizen. And when they are released from prison, the fact that they were in prison will fortunately or unfortunately (depending on the situation) loom over their head for years, if not the rest of their life, depending on the type of crime(s) they committed.

A gay person saying they didn’t have the right to get married is like a human saying they don’t have the right to marry their car or their pet. Marriage is a union between one man and one woman, thus attempting to “marry” your car or your pet or anything else that isn’t human is a perversion and a corruption of the union and not a marriage at all.

The right to get married is extended to every law-abiding citizen of the United States of America who meets the prerequisites.

When we go to college, there are certain classes students cannot take because they do not have the prerequisites required. They can take it later after they’ve earned them. Some other students cannot take a class at all because it is specifically for majors and minors in that field. But you don’t see college students raising hell because they can’t take a particular class. They do what is necessary to take the class and keep it moving.

When we learn to drive, we must (if we are young enough) study to get our Learner’s Permit. Once we’ve taken the test and earned our permit, we are free to learn to drive with a responsible licensed driver and when we are ready, we take the Driver’s Exam--written and driven--as many times as is necessary until we earn our license. But you don’t see tweens, teens, and others protesting and rioting because they don’t have a license. They do what is necessary to pass the exam(s) and earn their license.

Gays are welcome to marry whenever and whomever they like. But the institution of marriage and the general public should not have to suffer through redefining an age-old institution that the government never created to begin with because they do not like the prerequisites set in place.

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Marriage is Not Mandated by Law

Although the political and governmental climate is changing and our president certainly needs help from God and spiritual guidance, America is not technically a tyranny and our president is not technically a dictator. (THANK GOD for the two-term rule!!!) Thus, the institution of marriage is forced on no one. No American must marry by mandate of law. No American is forced to spend their life with another human being if they don’t want to. No American is commanded by the state or federal law to start a family. They are not held a gun-point, jailed, or fined if they fail to marry.


As such, no gay man, lesbian, bisexual, queer, or transitioning individual is mandated to marry or not to marry the person of their choosing. Neither are they mandated to marry or not marry a person of someone else’s choosing.


In fact, gays and related individuals are able to commit their lives in whatever way they choose to whomever they choose.

They can have what they deem “fulfilling” sexual relationships, in the form of monogamy or promiscuity, with whomever they choose.

No one was stopping them.

In fact, it’s been (sadly) encouraged. Just ask the wedding planning industry!

But that wasn’t enough for the LGBQT (Lesbian Gay Bisexual Queer/Questioning Transsexual/Transgender/Transitioning) community. (And allow me to say that I separate the average gay man or lesbian from the LGBQT community as a whole. Once you get the whole, the mob mentality generally takes over.) This community--loved by God like everyone else even if it is driven by the persuasive, perverted spirit of antiChrist--has protested, demanded, and thrown tantrums trying to force the law of the land and the general public to not only tolerate, not only take “pride” in, not only celebrate, but to pervert that law of the land by destroying the definition of marriage and granting them a right they already had, but in a way that removes all of the safeguards that makes the institution what it is.

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Same-Sex “Marriage” is a Sham

Same-sex marriage isn’t even marriage at all. Again, THIS is the definition of marriage:

“But from the beginning of the creation, God ‘made them male and female.’ ‘For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh’; so then they are no longer two, but one flesh.” (Mark 10:6-8)

If it ain’t one man and one woman, it ain’t marriage!!! Even a child can grasp this truth which is precisely why they are trying to remove gender identifiers in preschool, kindergarten, and school so children will grow up no longer knowing that there is a difference between male and female. Heck, so they won’t even know that there is such a thing as male and female.

We are intelligent enough to understand that in order to charge our phones and other electronics, we need one plug and one outlet. We are smart enough to know that a battery must have both negative and positive power to charge. We are brilliant enough to know that a key needs a keyhole in order to grant access, power, or some other sort of expected result, but we’re too dumb (or afraid = dumb) as a society as a whole to understand that a man putting semen into another man’s anus does NOT produce a child. It does not travel up his colon to find an imaginary womb with imaginary awaiting eggs, and begin incubating a child in an imaginary womb. We are too ignorant or cowardly to admit that a woman’s vagina was made for a man’s penis.

I hate to have to be so plain and crude, but no other method seems to drive the point home.

The argument, “What about straight couples who can’t or don’t have kids?” is entirely irrelevant. Couples who choose to not have kids are few and far between. Couples who are barren have something medically wrong with one or both of them. God never mandated either of these two circumstances. In fact throughout Scripture in both Testaments, being childless is a sign of a curse, NOT a blessing. Thus it is NOT the original, mandated, or preferred state of a married couple. The Law of First Mention which, in theology, teaches us to base every other mention and description of a thing, pattern, or institution off of its “first mention” in Scripture clearly demonstrates that God’s plan for marriage was ALWAYS to produce children.

So God created man in His own image; in the image of God He created him; male and female He created them. Then God blessed them, and God said to them, “Be fruitful and multiply; fill the earth and subdue it… (Genesis 1:27-28)

And if that wasn’t enough, God gave the same mandate “be fruitful and multiply” to Noah, Abraham, Isaac, Jacob (Israel), and later, the Church who is the Bride of Christ.

If a couple does not want to have kids, but surrenders to God’s will for their life, then they will at least try to have kids. If a woman is barren or a man is impotent, God can heal them and does heal those couples. These types of couples are the exception, NOT the rule.

Sex was not solely created for procreation, but without heterosexual sex, the natural procreation of the human race does not and cannot exist. More about that here.

“Well, why I can’t marry the person I love??” the LGBQT community would say. Look, I believe--and have heard stories from former homosexuals, some I know and some I don’t--that several gay couples really and truly are in love. For many (although not most), it’s not merely about promiscuity for them. Love is love. The heart wants what it wants. But guess what? That love is perverted and unnatural (Romans 1:26-27). Something pure was tainted and twisted by a spirit not from God. And the heart is deceitful and wicked above all things (Jeremiah 17:9) which is why our heart, mind, will, and emotions MUST be submitted to God (Matthew 6:10, II Corinthians 10:4-6, James 4:7). And that goes for everyone, straight, bi, and gay alike. Without submitting that aspect of our lives to God, we will NEVER EVER EVER make the right decisions and again, that goes for straight, bi, and gay alike. The deceitfulness of the heart is no respecter of persons and Satan seeks to deceive all he can through whatever means he can in as many areas as he can.

If you want to be committed to someone in sin for the rest of your natural life, then by all means do it! Hell awaits all those who live a life of unrepentant sin--any sin--so you might as well live it up in this lifetime because eternity will be Hell. Very literally!! I’ll continue to preach against homosexuality because God and His Word call it “unnatural” and an “abomination.” (Note: It does not call the PEOPLE unnatural and abominable, it calls the SIN, the ACTION unnatural and abominable. There is a very distinct difference between the two statements.) You can call it hate speech all you want to, but just because you don’t like hearing something doesn’t make it wrong. But I can’t stop you from living your life however you like. Live with whomever you like. Have sex with whomever you like, as many times as you like, with as many people, and aids, and porn as you like. Go for it! Have as many commitment ceremonies as you like! Find vendors that believe in your life choices and celebrate you--NOT those who don’t!!!--and have a gay old time!! Make it big and rainbow-coloured! Invite all of your loved ones and even all your pets. Have the time of your life!!

But DO NOT take an institution which is holy and natural, which is biologically beneficial, which produces stability in our society, and COMPLETELY DECONSTRUCT and ABOLISH the ORIGINAL INTENT whilst attempting to remake it in your own godless image. That is NOT acceptable.

So when Holy Ghost-filled preachers preach against your lifestyle, know that they’re not hatemongers. When bloggers, columnist, and authors like me write about the dangers of homosexuality and same-sex marriage to a person, family, and society, don’t troll our pages and send us hate mail. We’re not ignorant, we’re not afraid of you, and we DO NOT hate you! In fact, we love you! And that is PRECISELY why we MUST tell you the truth.

If you have children and if you are even a halfway decent parent, you know that there are times you will have to tell your children--especially teenagers--things they do not want to hear. Does that suddenly make you a bigoted, ignorant, hatemonger? Of course not!! It makes you a parent.

If you have friends and you are a halfway decent friend, then you know that there are times when you will have to have unpleasant conversations with them. You do not suddenly become their enemy, seeking their demise when you tell them unpleasant, uncomfortable, and unwelcome things. It makes you a true friend.

If you or someone you know threatens to commit suicide because you don’t like or can’t handle what a Christian or church is saying about homosexuality and related sexual acts/lifestyles, then you/they have a much deeper, serious problem that needs to be dealt with. Healthy people do not threaten to harm themselves because they hear things they don’t like. You don’t see Christians threatening to jump off buildings, slash their wrists, or overdose on pills because of the Supreme Court Ruling. You don’t have a history chocked full of women threatening to kill themselves because for centuries they were treated like second-class citizens. That is a spirit and it is not from God.

You cannot hold Christians hostage with threats of suicide. It won’t work. Not for real Christians. It’s not fair and it’s not true. If someone is going to commit suicide, they will do it regardless of what the Word of God and Christians who believe it say. And if the premise for your threats was true, then after you “win” the ability to marry or are able to have your transitional surgeries performed, then the suicide rate within the LGBQT community should plummet, only it won’t. It hasn’t. I wholeheartedly predict that divorce rate of this nation will skyrocket with the introduction of gay “marriage” until we repent and change the laws back to what they should be. Why? Because marriage--even if it is a sham--NEVER cures promiscuity. At best, it puts it off for a time. Studies already prove that those who’ve transitioned to the opposite gender still possess the same suicidal desires as before and many, sadly, even attempt and succeed in their intentions, so surgery is not the answer. Deliverance is.


What the Supreme Court Really Did…

The Supreme Court DID NOT grant homosexuals the right to marry. As we have more than established throughout this post, they already had that right.

What the Supreme Court DID, however, do is:

  • Slap God in the face.

  • Override the United States Constitution

  • Override the respective governments.

  • Override the voice of the people.

  • Attempt to redefine an unbreakable, unshakeable union established by God Almighty.

  • Create a legal precedent to further disintegrate the public, societal, and governmental interpretation of marriage. (See below.)

  • Officially legalize sexual perversion, sexual dysfunction, and overall depravity.

  • Create an official throne complete with a red carpet for the principality and stronghold of homosexuality in our nation’s capital.

  • Further set back the morals of our nation as a whole.

  • Invite the judgment and wrath of God on our nation.

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What’s coming?

The legalisation of:

  • Polygamy

  • Polyamory

  • Polyandry

  • Incest

  • Pedophilia

  • Bestiality

  • Lord knows what else.

We are truly living in the days of Noah and Lot. Humanity is going after strange flesh, unnatural sexual tendencies. Like in Sodom and Gomorrah, sexual perversions are being legalised. And what happened to the world in Noah’s day? The entire habitation of the world, save those on the ark, were completely and entirely wiped out by a global Flood immortalized in all of the ancient world religions. And what happened in Lot’s day? Sodom, Gomorrah, and all the other cities in that once-prosperous valley were destroyed by fire and brimstone.

We are reliving the days of Ancient Rome with that great civilization was destroyed from within. America possesses many similarities with Ancient Rome, including the promotion of homosexuality on a widespread public scale, even unto the ruling class and leader of the empire. And what happened to Rome? It lost its status as a global power and was overrun by “barbarians” on every side.

Only the prayers of the righteous and a sustained revival spurned by honest repentance can change this. But one thing I know: God is SO FAITHFUL to His righteous remnant!

If My people who are called by My name will humble themselves, and pray and seek My face, and turn from their wicked ways, then I will hear from heaven, and will forgive their sin and heal their land. (II Chronicles 7:14)

Dear, dear, dear gay community: you don’t need the right to get married. You already had it. You need deliverance. All of the love, identity, and affirmation that you are seeking can only ever be found in God Almighty. And the good news is, He is already seeking you! Cry out to God, repent for your sins (we ALL have to do it daily), and turn your heart and life over to Him. Then and only then will you have the liberty you are so longing for.

And it shall come to pass That whoever calls on the name of the Lord Shall be saved. (Acts 2:21)
Repent therefore and be converted, that your sins may be blotted out, so that times of refreshing may come from the presence of the Lord, and that He may send Jesus Christ, who was preached to you before… (Acts 3:19-20)
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